{"id":558,"date":"2026-02-04T02:42:48","date_gmt":"2026-02-04T02:42:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/song-rieng-tu-nhung-khong-tach-roi-xa-hoi\/"},"modified":"2026-02-04T03:17:29","modified_gmt":"2026-02-04T03:17:29","slug":"song-rieng-tu-nhung-khong-tach-roi-xa-hoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/song-rieng-tu-nhung-khong-tach-roi-xa-hoi\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;S\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang t\u01b0&#8221; nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng &#8220;t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc \u00e0,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1eebng nghe \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u201cs\u1ed1ng t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m\u201d ch\u01b0a nh\u1ec9 ? L\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng \u201cm\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh\u201d ho\u1eb7c t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang c\u0169ng t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn trong v\u00e0i b\u00e0i blog r\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0i blog n\u00e0y c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t theo m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c nhen \ud83d\udcad \ud83e\udef6 .<\/p>\n<p><strong>Khi \u201cri\u00eang t\u01b0\u201d kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u201ckh\u00e9p k\u00edn\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng \u201cm\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh\u201d, th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i g\u1ea7n thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean hoang s\u01a1, nh\u1eefng khu bi\u1ec7t l\u1eadp, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i \u201ctr\u00fa \u1ea9n\u201d, m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cri\u00eang t\u01b0\u201d ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng khi c\u1ea7n. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi lo ng\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng, li\u1ec7u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u201cthu h\u1eb9p\u201d kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng ? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 khi c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng, khi b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n \u201ct\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t\u201d v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ? Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e0i lo ng\u1ea1i khi b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng \u201ct\u00e1ch r\u1eddi\u201d x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i c\u0169ng t\u1eebng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c \u201ctri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng \u201c tinh th\u1ea7n khi b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, ho\u1eb7c \u201ct\u00e1ch r\u1eddi\u201d c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u201ctr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m\u201d nh\u1eb9. Ho\u1eb7c g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng \u201ctr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i\u201d khi giao ti\u1ebfp, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i. Nh\u01b0ng khi th\u1ef1c ra, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u201ct\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n\u201d ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, trong khi, m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, ri\u00eang t\u01b0 l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng \u201cm\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh\u201d nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0ng theo c\u00e1ch \u201cl\u1eb7ng\u201d v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1n. C\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u1eb9, m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u \u201ct\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i\u201d x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1eefa, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n \u201cnh\u1ed1t\u201d ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong c\u00e1c \u201cb\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d h\u1eb9p, trong ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u201cn\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u201ch\u01a1i b\u1ecb\u201d nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u \u201cm\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cRi\u00eang t\u01b0\u201d nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i theo c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau qua trong \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u00ean, khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn s\u1ed1ng \u201ct\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t\u201d, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n quen: ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8,&#8230;..theo c\u00e1c c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn l\u00e0m. B\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, giao l\u01b0u, ho\u1eb7c face-call (g\u1ecdi qua video). Nh\u01b0ng sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u201cn\u01a1i tr\u00fa \u1ea9n\u201d ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u bu\u1ed5i \u201ct\u1ee5 h\u1ecdp\u201d v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i \u0111i ch\u01a1i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i ho\u1eb7c \u201cs\u00e1o r\u1ed7ng\u201d. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u201cd\u00e0nh\u201d ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eb9, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed1ng t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tr\u00f4i qua m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. M\u1ed7i khi c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo l\u1eafng vi\u1ec7c \u00edt g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn s\u1ebd \u201ckh\u00f3 t\u00ecm\u201d ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap (khi b\u1ea1n \u201cl\u1ecbch s\u1ef1\u201d g\u1eb7p v\u00e0 ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi nh\u1eb9 khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n). B\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng, sinh ho\u1ea1t, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian ri\u00eang cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p \u201cs\u00e1o r\u1ed7ng\u201d m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, d\u00f9 \u201cm\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh\u201d, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 \u201cl\u1eb7ng\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Mong r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o, hay \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng \u201cm\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh\u201d, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m, vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u201cri\u00eang t\u01b0\u201d nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n<p>\ud83e\udeb4\ud83d\udecb\ufe0f \ud83d\udd6f\ufe0f\ud83c\udfb6 \ud83e\udde9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc \u00e0, B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1eebng nghe \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u201cs\u1ed1ng t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m\u201d ch\u01b0a nh\u1ec9 ? L\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng \u201cm\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh\u201d ho\u1eb7c t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang c\u0169ng t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn trong v\u00e0i b\u00e0i blog r\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0i blog n\u00e0y c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t theo m\u1ed9t [&#8230;]","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":564,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog-new","category-doi-song-va-the-gioi-nay"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/558","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=558"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/558\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":563,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/558\/revisions\/563"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/564"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=558"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=558"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=558"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}