{"id":523,"date":"2026-01-30T02:34:00","date_gmt":"2026-01-30T02:34:00","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2026-01-30T02:49:46","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T02:49:46","slug":"vai-dong-chia-se-nhe-khong-ten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/vai-dong-chia-se-nhe-khong-ten\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u00e0i d\u00f2ng chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 &#8220;kh\u00f4ng t\u00ean&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc \u00e0,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, u\u1ec3 o\u1ea3i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u201ckh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n\u201d ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u201cri\u00eang t\u01b0\u201d nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ec3 b\u00e0i blog n\u00e0y chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nhen.<\/p>\n<div class=\"is-divider small\"><\/div>\n<p>Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m trang blog, d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 g\u1ea7n tr\u00f2n th\u00e1ng ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng x\u1ea3y ra \u201cv\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u\u201d kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n \u201cd\u1eebng l\u1ea1i\u201d vi\u1ec7c vi\u1ebft blog n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1edfi t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng ho\u1eb7c n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, m\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00e0i \u201cm\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi\u201d v\u00e0 \u201c\u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh\u201d, khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u00f3 v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y h\u01a1i mu\u1ed1n \u201csuy s\u1ee5p\u201d. C\u00f3 khi, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 do, c\u0169ng l\u00e0m trang blog ri\u00eang ho\u1eb7c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u201ck\u00eanh Youtube\u201d ri\u00eang, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb su\u00f4n s\u1ebb h\u01a1n t\u00f4i. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh , h\u01a1n thua, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 li\u1ec7u \u201cvun \u0111\u1eafp\u201d trang blog nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00ean l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ? M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n &#8220;m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh\u201d , m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c y\u00ean b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n<div class=\"is-divider small\"><\/div>\n<p>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng \u201c\u00e1p l\u1ef1c\u201d v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng vi\u1ebft trong c\u00e1c b\u00e0i blog t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ebfn nay, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u00f4i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, n\u00ean t\u00f4i l\u00e0m trang blog n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201can \u1ee7i\u201d ho\u1eb7c xoa d\u1ecbu ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o nh\u1eefng m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc. Nh\u01b0ng khi ph\u1ea3i \u201ctr\u1ea3i qua\u201d nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, d\u00f9 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 &#8220;kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n\u201d h\u1eb3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng kh\u00e1c khi t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng li\u1ec7u m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c su\u00f4n s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 , theo d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i \u201cch\u1ec7ch h\u01b0\u1edbng\u201d nh\u01b0ng theo c\u00e1ch khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i \u201ckh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu\u201d n\u1ed5i. Cho d\u00f9 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00ean, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u201cm\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi\u201d nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o mu\u1ed1n x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n<div class=\"is-divider small\"><\/div>\n<p>Xin d\u1eebng v\u00e0i \u201ct\u00e2m s\u1ef1\u201d c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nhen. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 n\u00e0y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u201cn\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1\u201d ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cg\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i\u201d nh\u1eefng \u201cr\u00e0o c\u1ea3n\u201d khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ri\u00eang trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i n\u00eau trong hai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u00ean. Nh\u1eefng khi v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201c\u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh\u201d, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. \u1ede n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ri\u00eang, l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch nh\u1ecf, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0o m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c, khi ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, v\u00e0 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m ngay kh\u00f4ng ? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cr\u00f5 r\u00e0ng\u201d h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai b\u1ecb m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi , &#8220;r\u1ec7u r\u00e3\u201d, nh\u01b0ng k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o, trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta, khi kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u00f5. M\u1ed9t n\u01a1i khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1\u201d, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xoa d\u1ecbu tinh th\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo l\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u201c\u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng\u201d b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec. M\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cv\u1ed7 v\u1ec1\u201d ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Mong r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u201can to\u00e0n\u201d, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 n\u01a1i \u201cg\u00f3c nh\u1ecf\u201d ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y su\u00f4n s\u1ebb v\u00e0 an l\u00e0nh nh\u00e9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\udcad \ud83e\udef6 \ud83c\udf42 <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\ud83c\udf43<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc \u00e0, Khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, u\u1ec3 o\u1ea3i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u201ckh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n\u201d ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u201cri\u00eang t\u01b0\u201d nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ec3 b\u00e0i blog n\u00e0y chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nhen. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m trang blog, d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 [&#8230;]","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":527,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-523","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog-new","category-nhung-dieu-de-ngam"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/523","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=523"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/523\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":528,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/523\/revisions\/528"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/527"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=523"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=523"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wamfield.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=523"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}